How to develop positive attitude



How to develop positive attitude

Attitude is one of the main elements in becoming a successful sales professional. Someone may be successful at sales for a short period of time and then eventually lose interest in selling. This person may know his or her product and customer and use the right sales strategies, but not have the correct attitude towards sales. This almost always results in dissatisfied customers and lost sales opportunities.

 Enjoy selling
Remember the heart of sales is meeting people’s needs. Successful sales professionals enjoy making customers smile and exceeding customer’s expectations. We may have sales target and quotas, but successful sales professional are customer-focused not target-focused. Focus on serving your customers and meeting their needs and you will naturally achieve your sales targets and quotas.
It all beings with you enjoying what you do, and if this is in place, you will naturally demonstrate the right attitude towards selling. Think about it; when you are doing your most favorite thing, don’t you naturally smile, laugh and have the right attitude? In the same way, as you begin to enjoy selling and see it as an opportunity to make customers happy, you will develop the attitude needed to be a successful sales professional.
Additionally, there are three P’s that you should develop to be successful in sales:
·         Be positive: keep a positive attitude towards selling; never let one bad experience cause you to develop a negative mindset. Remember you may lose ten (10) customers before you gain a sale. So stay positive.
·         Be persistent: never give up in selling; sometimes you may have to open twenty (20) oysters before you find a pearl. Persistence is a key ingredient of every successful sales person.
·         Be naturally persuasive: use your personality and natural charisma to influence the buyer in the decision making process. People do not like be manipulated, so it is important that you be naturally persuasive.
More topics you can find in Sales as part of the CBP – certified business professional program.

Conflict Resolution Management



Conflict Resolution Management
Conflict resolution is a discussion in which mutual satisfactory goals are reached. It may include negotiation, mediation and compromise.

1.     Clearly identify the problem.
2.    Face the problem! It’s not going to go away because you don’t talk about it; it will only get worse. Attack the problem, not the person.
3.    Explore each person’s perception of the problem. Share the responsibility of resolving your conflict. Don’t always leave it up to your colleague to bring up hard issues and solve them.
4.    Stick to the issue at hand. Don’t try to bring in past issues just to strengthen your argument.



5.    Practice effective communication Skills. Be open about your felling and encourage your colleague to do the same. Be aware of cultural differences.
6.    Use ’I’ message like, ‘I would like’ or ‘I feel…’ instead of ‘you’ message, like ‘You should have..’ , ‘You are…’ ‘I’ statements help the other person listen instead of responding defensively.
7.     Determine each person’s needs and try to come up with a “Win-Win” solution for all parties concerns.
8.    Take action! If you‘ve talked through an issue of conflict and have come to a solution, work together to make it happen.
More topics you can find in Business Etiquette as part of the CBP – certified business professional program.


12 steps to leadership success



12 steps to leadership success
Diane Landers, Ph.D.
Learning, leadership, and loyalty become deep-rooted when employee growth is nurtured through a leadership development program, particularly one that is supported and sponsored throughout the firm.
This article illustrates corporate experience and execution of a 12-step approach to becoming an effective and sustainable "learning organization." In today's turbulent economy, a genuine investment in the excellence of an organization's people can generate a competitive advantage for the future of the firm.
This 12-step approach reflects the words of John C. Maxwell, a noted expert on leadership: "The single biggest way to impact an organization is to focus on leadership development. There is almost no limit to the potential of an organization that recruits good people, raises them up as leaders, and continually develops them."
1) Overcome resistance to change – The transformation to establishing staff development as a high priority at the heart of an organizational culture relies on interaction, tenacity, and enthusiastic executive-level champions who can enlist support and commitment at all levels. Establishing a top-level Executive Leadership Council, for example, can encourage serious buy-in for training programs because members must be actively involved in selecting candidates for a training course and are the first to appreciate the benefits of a better trained staff.
2) Financial allocation – Human resources (or a separate corporate budget) should be responsible for your corporate training programs, not line management, who have other project priorities that may limit the effectiveness of your program. Your training budget should include all expenditures – labor, travel, trainers, consultants, educational materials, incidentals, etc. When negotiating with your CEO/CFO, a little skill and finesse can be persuasive; due diligence is required. For instance, demonstrate how your leadership development funds will better serve corporate commitment to future growth than decentralized expenditures on piecemeal training that is not aligned with corporate core values.
3) Jump-start your program – Leadership articles and online modules by high-caliber learning systems such as Harvard Business Publishing, Development Dimensions International, and Dale Carnegie can be researched and selectively purchased for group sessions in leadership and management. A successful program providing an attitude of elitism among the staff can garner executive agreement to continue your leadership program throughout the organization, and expand financial support.
"The single biggest way to impact an organization is to focus on leadership development. There is almost no limit to the potential of an organization that recruits good people, raises them up as leaders, and continually develops them."
4) Engage top management – Actively engage executives and senior managers by inviting them to participate or provide opening remarks at kick-off sessions of leadership management courses. Their emphasis on the relationship of coursework to corporate investment in the future of the employees and the company will encourage participation and dedication. Some managers and executives are especially adept and enthusiastic about assisting with teaching activities, further reinforcing leadership training as a corporate culture and creating a demand for enrollment.
5) Initiate a demand for training – Persuade your executive staff to buy into the practice of looking at the leadership "graduates" for promotions before going to the outside to fill key positions. Although employees must be nominated by line managers to attend a program, the Executive Leadership Council (see Step 1) makes all selections for leadership development programs. When employees understand the selection process, they are more eager to apply and honored to be selected. Selection can be based on business need and employee applications. Often, skilled and creative applicants help identify future leaders at an early stage of their career development.
6) Acknowledge graduates – Make sure graduates receive exposure and recognition. Send a company-wide announcement with their photos, celebrating them as the crème de la crème for future leadership positions with special plaques, dinner parties, and professional group photos for publication and office display. Provide a special gift and a certificate to signify their career achievement. Kudos and rewards should vary with each completed class.
7) Generate a feeling of community – Invite honorees and their spouses, along with company executives, officers, and senior managers, to a special dinner and activity. Whatever the occasion, the cohort of new leaders have the opportunity for face-to-face interactions with top corporate leaders to build corporate trust and establish relationships and partnerships that last for years.
8) Endorse career advancement – Be an advocate for leadership development graduates during the merit increase process. Each participant's progress should be tracked by human resources, and their managers should be notified of leadership participation when the time comes for merit raises and promotions.
9) The "First Class" rule – Without exception, everything you do surrounding the training must be first class, down to the smallest detail. This includes your delivery down to the tablecloths, pitchers of water, prizes, catered hot lunches, dinners, and entertainment, professionally designed and framed certificates, assignment of professional development hours, the graduation process, and the handshake.
10) Engage and motivate – Strive for positive internal evaluations with training that is both engaging and fun. Consider these activities as complements to your lectures: hold team and individual competitions; produce educational videos and discuss; conduct mock real-life scenarios – role-play. Keep students moving and active, engaged, and motivated. Practice each training session with a small pilot group of marketing and human resources staff in advance so that execution is exceptional. Obtain feedback from the class for continuous improvement.
11) Deliver consistently – Establish an annual training plan, without exception, and stick to it, for a consistent, first-class delivery. It is difficult to conceptualize the countless number of preparation hours required. Start weeks before the scheduled trainings to confirm that you are organized and have all the props ready to go. Annual follow-through and delivery generates an immense sense of accomplishment and commitment.
12) Link succession planning to leadership development – Establish an annual succession planning process for identifying, in advance, the "heir to the throne" for key positions. Identify future leaders early, understand their strengths and weaknesses, prepare and develop them to assume the leadership roles of the future. Make leadership development programs part of your organizational culture. The return on investment is invaluable.

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Diane Landers, Ph.D., vice president and chief marketing officer, GAI Consultants, applied her passion for leadership and experience as a former university professor to spearhead a board-level initiative to develop the first corporate-wide Leadership Program for the firm. Landers teamed with David Mollish, chief human resources officer, who has developed and administered leadership programs for Fortune 500 firms. In less than a year, they launched the Leadership Development Program for GAI Consultants (www.gaiconsultants.com), a national engineering and environmental consulting firm. Contact Landers or Mollish at 412-476-2000. Special thanks to Lynda Shirley and Allison O'Konski for assistance preparing this article.

Soft Skills List – Self Management Skills



Soft Skills List – Self Management Skills

Self-Management Skills address how you perceive yourself and others, manage your emotions, and react to adverse situations.   Only when you build an inner excellence can you have a strong mental and emotional foundation to succeed in your career.


  1. Growth mindset – Looking at any situation, especially difficult situations, as an opportunity for you to learn, grow, and change for the better.  Focusing your attention on improving yourself instead of changing others or blaming anyone.
  2. Self-awareness – Knowing and understanding what drives, angers, motivates, embarrasses, frustrates, and inspires you.  Being able to observe yourself objectively in a difficult situation and understand how your perceptions of yourself, others, and the situation are driving your actions.
  3. Emotion regulation – Being able to manage your emotions, especially negative ones, at work (e.g. anger, frustration, embarrassment) so you can think clearly and objectively, and act accordingly.
  4. Self-confidence - Believing in yourself and your ability to accomplish anything.  Knowing that all you need is within you now.  “Those who believe in themselves have access to unlimited power” – wisdom from Kung Fu Panda
  5. Stress management- Being able to stay healthy, calm, and balanced in any challenging situations.  Knowing how to reduce your stress level will increase your productivity, prepare you for new challenges and supports your physical and emotional health, all of which you need for a fulfilling, successful career.
  6. Resilience – Being able to bounce back after a disappointment or set back, big or small, and continue to move onward and upward.
  7. Skills to forgive and forget- Being able to forgive yourself for making a mistake, forgive others that wronged you, and move on without “mental or emotional baggage.”  Freeing your mind from the past so you can focus 100% of your mental energy on your near and long-term career goals.
  8. Persistence and perseverance – Being able to maintain the same energy and dedication in your effort to learn, do, and achieve in your career despite difficulties, failures, and oppositions.
  9. Patience – Being able to step back in a seemingly rushed or crisis situation, so you can think clearly and take action that fulfills your long term goals.
  10. Perceptiveness – Giving attention and understanding to the unspoken cues and underlying nuance of other people’s communication and actions.  Often times, we are too busy thinking about ourselves and what we are saying, we leave little room to watch and understand others’ action and intentions.   If you misinterpret other’s intention, you can easily encounter difficulties dealing with people and not even know why.     to more about the international soft skills certificate visit us on : www.ibta-arabia.com